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Stories from the Field: Irish Madera of PRIDAKAS, Metro Manila

Irish Madera writes a letter to her IH-Germany sponsor during a home visit conducted by HBI to the Madera Family.
Irish Madera writes a letter to her IH-Germany sponsor during a home visit conducted by HBI to the Madera Family.

Like most local non-profits, the Haligi ng Bata, Inc. (HBI) believes that little girls with dreams become women with vision. This fervent belief is one of the many reasons why HBI with the help of IH-Germany and its donors make sure that little girls with dreams are being supported by the Child Sponsorship Program so that in the future, they can transform their dreams into their realities.

Irish Erika Madera, 10 years old, is one of the little girls who are sponsored children of HBI and IH-Germany. She may be one of the many girls who are HBI sponsored children, but in her family she is the only daughter.  The child, fondly called Kikay by family and friends, has six brothers: four are older and two are younger than her. They live in a small makeshift house in the PRIDAKAS community located in Quezon City, Metro Manila. Kikay’s father works as a maintenance man while her mother is a full-time housewife who tends to Kikay and her brothers’ needs.

Irish and her mom pose for a photo inside their house during an HBI home visit. The mother and daughter are very close as Irish is the only daughter out of seven kids.
Irish and her mom pose for a photo inside their house during an HBI home visit. The mother and daughter are very close as Irish is the only daughter out of seven kids.

When asked by HBI how it is growing up with six brothers, Kikay said that “it’s very okay, because I get along well with them. Plus I have instant friends with my siblings and instant playmates with my younger brothers. Also, my mother and I are very close because we are the only girls in the family.” Her mother said that she is thankful to have Irish as her only daughter because “even if she is still young, I have someone who helps me at home and someone I can talk to about dresses and keeping the house clean.” Kikay’s father also said that he feels blessed to have at least one daughter because “she is more showy and affectionate than her brothers. When I go home from work, she always gives me a hug which makes all the hard work worth it.

Irish, her mom, and two younger brothers pose for a photo during an HBI home visit.
Irish, her mom, and two younger brothers pose for a photo during an HBI home visit.

Indeed, her parents are working hard to provide them with a better future. But with only one income, the Madera Family finds it difficult to provide all the needs of their children. “That is why we are thankful to HBI, IH-Germany and Kikay’s sponsor because the support provided to her ensures that she continues getting an education which we hope will give her a better life,” her parents said. Kikay is now a Grade 4 student of the Holy Spirit Elementary School – a public school in the community – and considers English as her favorite subject because “I like pronouncing English words correctly and I like writing in English.” Her grade average is a steady 82% out of 100% but she makes sure that she studies all her lessons so that she can get higher grades. As a way of giving back to HBI, the child’s mom is also an active HBI Area Volunteer who assists HBI during project activities like distribution of school supplies, health kits, and conduct of livelihood seminars.

Irish Madera dreams of being a school teacher when she grows up. When asked why, she said “because I want to be a good example to children – I want them to know that even if you are poor, you can dream and you can work hard to reach that dream.” With that said, HBI through the support of IH-Germany and their donors will continue fostering the dreams of Filipino girls through the Child Sponsorship Program so that they can become women who overcame poverty in their pursuit of a better and more fulfilling life.donors will continue fostering the dreams of Filipino girls through the Child Sponsorship Program so that they can become women who overcame poverty in their pursuit of a better and more fulfilling life.

Vanessa Sagayo and Beda Ann Baoas: Former Sponsored Children, Now Registered Nurses

Seng-ngat Elementary School children joined the Medical Mission funded by ICARE Australia and locally implemented by HBI
Seng-ngat Elementary School children joined the Medical Mission funded by ICARE Australia and locally implemented by HBI

During the October 2013 school-based medical missions in the HBI and I-CARE project areas in La Union, two former sponsored children who have went on to become registered nurses volunteered their medical services to more than 300 children and parents. Vanessa Joy Sagayo and Beda Ann Baoas shared their stories in between medical mission breaks to the HBI Technical Team who oversaw the implementation of the medical mission.

Vanessa Joy, 23 years old, said that “when I was being oriented by the HBI Community Worker about the Medical Mission activity, I told her that I already know the procedure because I was an HBI sponsored child – I used to fall in line with my classmates in Seng-ngat Elementary School so that we can get our medical and dental check-ups. It’s funny how time flies and how destiny works – now here I am implementing the actual check-ups.” Vanessa is the daughter of local farmers and her mom, Jackie, is one of the most active HBI and I-CARE Australia Area Leaders in the Seng-ngat, Sudipen, La Union community. “I became a sponsored child when I was in Grade 2 in the year 1999. Like the current sponsored children, I also enjoyed writing letters and Christmas cards to my sponsor. Of course, I also received school supplies, uniforms, medicines, and gifts every year. My sponsor even wrote me a simple letter twice which I received with such excitement.

Vanessa was withdrawn from the Child Sponsorship Program when she was in first year high school. “According to my HBI social worker back then, my sponsor stopped donating and that’s why I was withdrawn from the sponsorship. Still, me and my family continue to be thankful for my sponsor’s support because these support made my elementary schooling very fun and enjoyable. My experience as a sponsored child inculcated in me that I should love school, value my education, and try to give back and share my blessings to others.

Former HBI sponsored child Vanessa Sagayo R.N.
Former HBI sponsored child Vanessa Sagayo R.N.

Her mother said that Vanessa is a smart and studious girl even when she was in grade school. “Me and her father worried that we wouldn’t be able to send Vanessa to college when she graduated from high school. Thankfully, my sister who has a stable job said that she will help us in sending her to school,” Mother Jackie narrates. Vanessa then enrolled for a Nursing degree in the LORMA College in San Fernando, La Union. She persevered and endured an almost three-hour commute from school to home, little financial resources, and a backbreaking class schedule which involved class lectures and actual hospital work. Finally, she graduated on March 2010 and passed the Nursing Licensure Exam on December 2010. She is the first in her family to finish college.

Beda Ann Baoas, also 23 years old, has a different child sponsorship story. “I was identified to be a sponsored child when I was a Grade 3 student of Seng-ngat Elementary School in the year 2000.” She recalls receiving educational supplies, health kits, and Christmas groceries. Like Vanessa, Beda Ann enjoyed her time as a sponsored child. “We have Christmas parties and sports festivals annually – those were some of the highligths of my childhood. It was fun interacting with other sponsored children and with the HBI employees.

Unlike Vanessa who was withdrawn from the program because her sponsor became inactive, Beda Ann was withdrawn from the program upon her graduation from elementary school because her family’s financial life has improved. “One of my siblings was able to find work overseas and he helped my parents in supporting our family. Because of this, my older siblings were able to finish their schooling and obtained good jobs. They worked hand-in-hand so that I could finish my college studies.

Beda Ann Baoas R.N. was an HBI sponsored child
Beda Ann Baoas R.N. was an HBI sponsored child

Beda Ann who wanted to be a nurse ever since she was a little girl then enrolled in Our Lady of Fatima University (OLFU) in Quezon City, Metro Manila – ten hours away from her Seng-ngat, Sudipen, La Union hometown. When asked about her experience as a student from a small rural town in a big city university, Beda said “it was difficult at first – I had to adjust. I had to fit in with my classmates and I had to re-learn school lessons I thought I’ve already mastered. My first 6 months in the city was hard, but thankfully, I was living with my sister and she helped me adjust and get used to the fast-paced city life.” Like Vanessa, Beda Ann graduated on March 2010 and successfully passed the Nursing Licensure Exam on December 2010.

Both former sponsored children are now working in the Sudipen Municipal Health Center and the Tagudin Municipal Health Center as rural nurses. Vanessa and Beda waxed emotional when they said that “we are working in these health centers not only because we want to get medical experience but also because we want to pay it forward. We want to help poor children and families the best way we know how – through medicine. We owe it to our community and to our sponsors who kindly and generously shared what they have with poor children like us.

Former HBI sponsored children Beda Ann Baoas and Vanessa Sagayo are now registered nurses
Former HBI sponsored children Beda Ann Baoas and Vanessa Sagayo are now registered nurses

Both intend to stay on as rural nurses for a considerable amount of time. “While I still can,” Beda said, “I want to help treat poor families living on the mountains who have never seen a doctor before.” Vanessa added that “hospital work or overseas work may have more monetary rewards than being a rural nurse, but being able to alleviate the pain of  poor children with a wound or a toothache – seeing their smiles when the pain is gone – that is priceless.

Ms. Naomi Spencer’s visits her sponsored child, Warren Gracia

The Gracia Family with Ms. Naomi Spencer
The Gracia Family with Ms. Naomi Spencer

On May 30, 2013, Madam Naomi Spencer – a donor of ICARE-Australia, paid a personal visit to her sponsored child, Warren Gracia. The Haligi ng Bata, Inc. (HBI) team, led by Mrs. Letty Magaan, fetched Ms. Naomi and her husband, Mr. Alan Robinson, in their hotel on the morning of May 30, 2013 to go to the Gracia Family’s humble home located in the hinterlands of Castro, Sudipen, La Union. On the way to the child’s house, Ms. Spencer and Mr. Robinson exchange pleasantries and stories with the HBI team which provided both parties with clearer and broader pictures of who they are and what they do.

Upon arriving in the Castro Community, the group was met by the HBI Area Social Worker, Ms. Rea Rabe, and the Castro Community HBI Area Leader, Mrs. Marlyn Guzman. From the Castro Community Center, Ms. Spencer and Mr. Robinson together with the HBI Team walked to Warren Gracia’s home. After a short walk, they reached the child’s home where they were welcomed by the child’s father, sister, and of course, Warren. The boy was, at first, shy to meet Ms. Spencer and Mr. Robinson. Ms. Naomi then explained to Warren and his father that he is actually being sponsored by her and her son, Jesse. To this, Warren said thank you very much for supporting him and his family. He then invited Ms. Naomi to come inside their small house. Inside, Ms. Naomi asked Warren where he sleeps, eats, and studies his school lessons. The child gamely toured his sponsor inside his small home. Ms. Naomi also noticed school awards like Most Behaved Student, Most Obedient, and Academic Honorable Mentions, that Warren received. She said she’s proud of his achievements and is very happy that the child’s family is very proud of Warren’s achievements.

Warren shows his sponsor his pet cat
Warren shows his sponsor his pet cat
Ms. Naomi Spencer's gifts to Warren
Ms. Naomi Spencer’s gifts to Warren

Ms. Naomi also came bearing gifts during her visit to Warren. She presented him with inspiration books complete with daily reflections and meaningful bible passages. Warren also received a Bible complete with an inspiring handwritten dedication from Ms. Naomi. Also, he received magazines about Australian wildlife and a drawing/sketching pad complete with coloring materials. Warren was very happy to receive all these additional gifts from his loving sponsor. He even read an inspirational entry in one of the books given to him by Ms. Naomi. Warren also excitedly showed Ms. Naomi two of his pet cats which she appreciated because he became more comfortable and relaxed as the visit progressed. She also visited the Gracia Family’s kitchen and toilet, just so she can have an idea as to what Warren’s everyday life looks like.

At the tail-end of the visit, Ms. Naomi shed tears of joy as she confessed that this was an overwhelming and inspiring experience. On his part, Warren and his dad expressed that they will never forget how their sponsors visited them on a hot summer day in 2013. In parting, Warren said to an HBI team member that Ms. Naomi and Mr. Alan’s visit reminded him of one of his favorite Bible quotes that is very apt – “It’s Ephesians Chapter 1, Verse 16 – ‘I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers.’ I already underlined it in my new Bible.